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Things We Take for Granted in the USA

I’ve spent the last two months out of the country and within hours of landing in New York City, I started to realize just how much we take for granted when we live in the United States. My life in Costa Rica has been full of days that test my patience . 10 hours after I landed in New York, I came to one conclusion: “I can get more done in 24 hours in the USA than I can in one week in Costa Rica.”

Accessibility

The Cell Phone Chronicles

My first morning in New York I had a few errands I needed to run, the first of which was getting my hands on a prepaid cell phone.  Just a few weeks back I had bought a pre-paid cell in Tamarindo, the town in Costa Rica where I live.  After I bought my cell phone, the girl at the store told me they had no sim cards and I would have to go to another location to purchase a sim card which would involve a bus ride to another town. A simple errand to get a cell phone was quickly  turned into a half day ordeal.  In New York , I walked out the door to my friend’s apartment and there was a T-Mobile store across the street. In about 15 minutes I had a prepaid cell phone and found myself wondering what to do with all this free time.

The Haircut

For my first few months in Costa Rica I was living a town of roughly 100 people. There was no ATM machine, and no place to get a haircut. My hair got so bad that the local grocer even said that my hair was starting to look a bit crazy.  Oddly enough, the town did have plenty of places with WIFI.  In New York, right after I bought my cell phone, I found a place two blocks away to get my hair cut.  In less than half a day I had managed to cross of several errands that I needed to take care of.

Accessibility to our everyday needs is something we really take for granted. You don’t realize how convenient life is in the US until you start to live without your conveniences for a while. Don’t get me wrong. I love to travel, I love the fact that my life is a continuous adventure, but sometimes you wonder if “living the dream” is more of a hassle than people realize.

Running Water

It’s  likely that you rarely deal with a lack of running water in the United States. You turn on your faucet and hot and cold water is  always there. When you’re abroad you might find yourself going upwards of 24 hours without water, and there’s nobody to call that can fix it. You just have to wait until it comes back on. Even if there was somebody you could call, chances are they wouldn’t be much of a help and by the time they actually show up they issue would be resolved. It’s just the way it goes in most developing countries.

Electricity

Electricity is another one of those things we take for granted. Barring some sort of crazy thunderstorm, you never deal with a lack of electricity when you’re in living in the United States. It’s more or less “always on.” In developing countries sporadic power outages are a common occurrence.  While I’ve been fortunate to experience ones that only last about an hour, people have reported cases of not having power for upwards of 24 hours.   This is yet another one of those things that we really take for granted. In a developing country you just become desensitized to it and realize it’s a part of life.

Internet Access

As a digital nomad, reliable internet access plays a big role in my life. The morning that I was working on this article I had just landed in Costa Rica and when I went to the departure lounge for my connecting flight and the staff there said “oh, the WIFI is broken” I thought to myself  “I’m back in Costa Rica again.”  During my 10 days in New York anytime I sat down at a wifi hotspot there was never any doubt in my mind as to whether or not I’d able to connect. I’ve heard internet access horror stories from other digital nomads, and those moments really make me want to throw my laptop out the window and yell. Fortunately I’ve resisted the temptation.

Transportation

As a budget traveler, I tend to use the bus quite a bit. In the town of Tamarindo where I live, the bus schedule seems to be a matter of opinion rather than fact, and every single person I talk to seems to have a different opinion. As a result I’ve found myself at bus stops far too early or chasing the bus down the street yelling at the driver to wait for me. 10 days in New Work city were the polar opposite experience when it came to transportation. If the train schedule said 2:30, a train would be there at 2:30 on the dot.  I know that it’s not a fair comparison consider that New York has one of the best public transportation systems in the world, but it just makes you realize how easy it is to get around when you have something like that at your disposal.

When you’re not a traveler or nomad, you might see the lives of those who are and think that it’s all living in paradise, sipping mojitos, lying in hammocks, and endless summers.   But if you experience it for yourself for some extended period of time you’ll quickly learn that we do really take many things for granted in the United States.

PG

Srinivas Rao

Srinivas is an avid surfer and personal development blogger at The Skool of Life. He's also the host and co-founder of BlogcastFM, a podcast for bloggers.

3 Comments

  1. 8 months ago
    Julia

    I have to comment! It is so different being a “local” than it is to be on vacation in another country. As locals, we get to see what life is really like. No one on vacation hardly ever needs the bus, they already have a cellphone and probably won’t be bothered by no electricity because the bigger buildings, like hotels, have generators to make sure their guests don’t have to go without air conditioning or hot water. I have to laugh when people say “Wow, you are so lucky” and I am lucky, but what I consider lucky is not what their vacation experience was. I consider all of what you listed in this blog lucky because it makes us appreciate what we DO have here (things like good waves, good friends, home-cooked meals, a bike that works, etc) and what we are able to return to in the US at any time we feel like.

  2. 7 months ago
    Rachel

    Bus schedules, the water NOT being turned off at a moments notice, lack of sewage on the street after rain, accessibility to cheap and good electronics, hair products and real chocolate chips!

  3. 1 week ago
    Benja

    First have to say I dig your articles mate and as a US expat about to become Aussie before returning to nomad life must say how refreshing some of your articles are, so kudos.

    I have to say In many of these articles I can’t help but see a common thread of “parachute travellers/expats”
    Meaning one who lives long term/permanently abroad in general yet has a “parachute” or connection in ones home country. Such as my mates back when I lived in Iquitos,Peru who if things got bad politically or medically etc they could pop back to family in the US, UK/Europe, Australia and so on. To be fair some of us do not have positive experiences(warm meals. working bikes etc) or options to return to and in fact I rather enjoy that as well since it makes the reality of making it work abroad more inline with locals without a parachute.

    I like that you bring to light the difference between long vacation and actually immersing and living in a place. I was raised in the US Portugal and Mozambique and after being forced to complete high school in the US left right after school(like the first week) and personally haven’t really looked back or missed anything in fact rather the opposite.

    I keep hearing “how lucky we have it” and this was something I faced when living in the US as a teen after having lived in Africa. I honestly missed more things in Africa such as the people, more friendly open culture, food, and geography than I did the tick tacky boxes on a hillside housing developments and megashopping asphalt parks I so commonly found upon returning to the US. Also now that have been here in Oz I find the standard I would have of living their such as healthcare, quality of food, and wages almost third worldly in comparison to what I have hear though I know this isn’t uncommon for expats in Europes and Australia. In other words there is always somewhere worse off but thats not the scale to use for how great a nation is or isn’t.

    Also using NYC may not be a fair comparison to use in reference to the USA as a whole. Though I’m not trying to be one of those whingy people just saying my experience in Texas, Indiana, Maine would be more like your costa rica experience than the right next door finds of New York.

    The other thing it would be better to say “how good we have it in the developed world” thus including often forgotten countries such as Australia, NZ, and many Western European countries. Just a personal peeve of mine since it makes it sound like rather US-centric.

    Though all in all don’t mean to be stepping on toes or having a whinge just some personal thoughts that others might also have. Tudo Beleza as we say in Portuquese its all beautiful/good :)

    Thanks for your writings mate. My partner n I are now planning at least a couple years of nomad life and Ive been here in in oz 5yrs now which is giving me the travel bug to get back out once my citizenship comes through and slowly hoon around the world again.

    Best of luck and Gudonya for what you do mate :)

    Benja

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